ObjectAnonymous

'Every time we liberate a woman, we liberate a man.' - Margaret Mead

Feminism is Freedom

About


About
What is this project about?

Raising awareness about sexual objectification/harassment in public. Trying to educate both genders to prevent situations which harm us emotionally and physically. We aim to liberate women (or any person who feels self-conscious in public) and strive for a world where we can feel safe and free in public!

Why is this an issue? 


Firstly, safety. These types of situations can go down a number of dark paths. Often these are not reported to the police but do end up being traumatic events in women’s lives that they never forget.  

Secondly, objectification. It’s everywhere. Media, music, art and just about anywhere you look, you can find objectification via the female body. We have taught the people that the female body is an object of sex. Young women are told to achieve it and young men to possess it.

Thirdly, miscommunication. Maybe if the guys (not all men, we know!) who cat call, grope and flash their penises knew that this was never EVER going to get them anywhere with ladies…maybe just maybe they’d try spending their time a little more productively.

Fourthly, did you know this happens all day, everywhere? It doesn’t just happen because a girl is ‘pretty’ or she’s ‘asking for it’. Here’s an interesting fact, we are never asking it! Did you also know, that women go home crying and hating themselves, their bodies and society in consequence?


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Veronica

The worst it's been was a guy actually then planted a kiss on her because 'her girlfriend didn't matter'.

Sara

I will stick to the anger and the hot resentment that I have carried for fifty years about the intrusive, aggressive, and frankly sometimes frightening assaults which interrupted my daily life for many, many years.

Lily

I generally get cat called every day so it’s hard to pick a particular instance that was bad. It makes me uncomfortable every day.

Jemima

Literally every single day of my life this happens.

Frankie

So I had been sexually assaulted and then victimised by another lady

Steffi

I just minimize stuff like this because if I got upset every time, I don't think I could deal with anything

Samantha

I said please leave me alone- then he got in my personal space shouting ‘who the fuck do you think you are- to not even accept my compliments to you’ I said leave me alone.

Eboni

and an old man stopped to ask “if I suck their dicks as well?”

Aimee

but mostly I would really like to get home from my job and not fear for my life but that’s just me...

Lydia

It’s so hard to just be a friendly person to men these days when this is what I get 50% of the time...

Sasha

One man even said to a pregnant woman one morning "I'll let you have my seat if you give me your number"

Tessa

To say the least I felt humiliated that I’d been so easily dictated. But more annoyingly about it is that although I mostly felt angry, someone else could be in that position and feel totally worthless or scared. and that’s why men need an education on this shit

Lydia

I wear very distinctive glasses...

Bethany

I get an awful lot of comments about my bum

Gabi

I walked under some scaffolding with builders on it and one of them deadass went 'i'd love to have a go on those'

Lily

a car comes opposite me and said ‘orite sexy wanna give me your number’ of course I said ‘errr no’ he said ‘well you’re fucking ugly anyway’

Tamara

What annoys me most is they say wearing minimal clothing is the issue

Charlotte

I feel small and powerless. I have been followed, yelled at, disrespected, harassed, cat called, you name it.

Sara

"when me and my sister once were in one after a night out a man stared me up and down and started to masturbate, in front of me, in McDonald's. I felt so dirty, I couldn't wear those clothes for months and it still only reminds me off that moment."

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